If you are lucky enough to have a partner in gardening , a spouse, a friend or a garden club you will have plenty of garden conversations.
From our experience reading about gardens, visiting gardens and generally being immersed in gardens has been a connection for us over more than 40 years. If I didn't have the garden who knows what would have happened? At our place there are always books out, new ideas of designs for the garden, lists of plants, collections of labels and that is just in the living room . We don't always agree on ideas for the garden , I probably wouldn't have a pool since it has taken up the best sunny spot and did have a prosperous vegie and herb garden there once. Michael would also like it if I was a bit more receptive to his huge knowledge of plants and his zealous need to collect and document everything. Either way we bring different skills and have created a garden that we love.
Even our children were dragged into this obsession as they were constantly being taken to gardens , botanic, historic, foreign and domestic and never to the Theme park "worlds". Even a trip to Australia Zoo with our grandkids had Michael in raptures about the plants. Some people say they can't have a garden because they have kids or no time . Our babies slept in the pram or when they were bigger played along side us while we worked in the garden . When they were teenagers I found the great escape of mowing . That aside it is lovely to see our adult children and grandchildren engaged with gardens and being outdoors.
The Shambles is a child friendly place and at Easter we always have an Easter hunt and an art activity to do .